Apparently, it's all about talking to the right people. We ran into the head of the NICU last night:
- D: "Who's going to be the gatekeeper on when we can hold him?"
- Dr. K: "You've never held him before?"
- D: "No."
- Dr. K: "Oh, you're going to hold this baby."
- D: "Sometime soon?"
- Dr. K: "No, now! It's been 44 days...this baby needs to be held!"
- D: (tears forming) "Really?"
The last time we asked the same question, we were told that we should probably wait to hold him until:
- He was extubated again.
- His arterial line was taken out.
- He was tolerating full feeds through his G-tube.
Fortunately, it looks like we've broken the seal. D just talked to today's nurse, who said we can hold him again when we go down there this afternoon.
Go assertive Danielle and savvy docs!!
ReplyDeleteI love that smile when you're holding him. So happy for your family's progress the last few days!!