Friday, November 30, 2007

Hair



It seems almost sacreligious at this point to post pictures of Andrew that are less-than-flattering, but I want to make sure that I immortalize everything about him, both the good and the....not so good. The steroids definitely did a number on him, which appeared most prominently in his swollen cheeks and hair loss. I know some of this may have been due to natural hair loss in babies his age, but I think the steroids may have accelerated the process. These pictures have a good angle on the bald patches that were left on his head.

The puffy cheeks were cute in a way, especially since we were expecting them to diminish over time. Some of the lesser side effects were not cute, but sometimes funny....they read like a steroid warning label. He had a little acne on his chin...just a couple of small bumps. And though he was losing hair on his head, he had plenty of hair in other places. On his chin, on his chest, and on his legs; he was like a little old man.

One hair location that I don't think I can blame on the steroids is his forehead. He was born with hair coming all the way down to his eyebrows, and while most of the other "baby hair" rubbed off as it was supposed to, this just got thicker and darker. I'm guessing my Greek and Italian blood had something to do with it...let's just hope that any future babies (especially girls) don't share that trait.

3 comments:

  1. Jaime and Danielle,
    We're so sorry for your loss and we know that only time can diminish the sorrow you must feel. We're greatly impressed and inspired by the devotion, sincerity, and maturity you've shown through this whole process. We know that you did everything you could to make Drew's life brighter. He looks beautifully at peace in the photos with no tubes and gadgets attached. No one wants that for their child, but you did the best that you could in the time that Drew was alive. Just know that we support you and we know you did all of the right things. Big hugs from us to you--with love, Denise, Andrew, Scott & Sarah Mesdjian :)

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  2. Jaime and Danielle,

    I'm so sorry that it's taken so long to express my deep sadness and sympathy for having to say goodbye to your precious little Andrew. I can't imagine how it feels to be in your shoes. I'm so glad that you both have a wonderful circle of family and friends. Andrew truly is free from pain now and in the arms of his Creator. Thank you so much for your incredible courage and devotion. You both are an inspiration and have definately touched my heart. Please keep posting and sending pictures until your hearts desire. It seems to be healing for all who read. God bless you and wrap His loving arms around you. I love you and think and pray for you both often ... Marianne

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  3. your baby is so cute. he will be all right and have a wonderful life, not only because he is cute and strong but also because he has a wonderful parent. God bless your baby and all your family.

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